Today is Valentine's Day. I got zero valentines. Oh, well, didn't expect to get any. But sometimes I wonder about the idea of having an admirer from afar. Sounds lovely. But wait..............
Maybe this isn't the time you want to have someone admire you and hope for you to return their attention/affection. Lately I've been reading alot. Here are some of the books I've read. Tell me if you find my list interesting............
First I read "IN SHEEP'S CLOTHING.....UNDERSTANDING & DEALING WITH MANIPULATIVE PEOPLE" by George Simon, Jr.
Next there was "STOP WALKING ON EGGSHELLS...TAKING YOUR LIFE BACK WHEN SOMEONE YOU CARE ABOUT HAS BORDERLINE PERSONALITY DISORDER" by Paul Mason & Randi Kreger.
And, finally I'm just beginning "WITHOUT CONSCIENCE" by Robert D. Hare.
These books all deal with individuals who have NO CONSCIENCE. Some people say that they make up possibly a quarter of our population.
Imagine, not having a conscience, not worrying about what you do, what you say, how you treat your wife, child, lover, parent, child, etc. Individuals who are not limited in what they do to others. I have known one. Actually, there are several that have been or are now in my life.
And, until you become aware of them, you might go through life thinking you are crazy.....or that there is something wrong with you.....or maybe that you need to be more loving/allowing/caring/aware/"turn the other cheek" type person. N.O.T.
There is a type of human being who is not like you and me. Who has no conscience. Who turns everything you try to explain to them about what it is that is bothering you about their behavior TO BLAME YOU FOR WHATEVER IS GOING WRONG IN THE RELATIONSHIP.
Creepy, nest pas. Damn right ! ! !
Well, there are some words you should google: Ponerology, for one. There are some wonderful websites on Borderline Personality Disorder. And, for one more time, I challenge you to check out:
http://ponerology.blogspot.com
http://laura-knight-jadczyk.blogspot.com
http://signs-of-the-times.org/signs/signs/php
also, there is this G.R.E.A.T. website about psychopaths.....
http://www.cassiopaea.com/cassiopaea/psychopath.htm
Tuesday, February 14, 2006
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