RULES FOR DEALING WITH SOCIOPATHS

Found this article from another blogger at:

http://wandering-reflections.blogspot.com

THIRTEEN RULES FOR DEALING WITH SOCIOPATHS IN EVERYDAY LIFE......

Well, this is only a guide... is much better to read the book from which these rules came from, "The Sociopath Next Door" by Martha Stout.

1) The first rule involves the bitter pill of accepting that some people literally have no conscience.

2) In a contest between your instincts and what is implied by the role a person has taken on, go with your instincts.

3) When considering a new relationship, practice the Rule of 3s regarding the claims and promises a person makes, and the responsibilities he or she has.

4) Question authority.

5) Suspect flattery.

6) If necessary redefine your concept of respect. [based on fear?]

7) Do not join the game.

8) The best way to protect yourself is to avoid him, to refuse any kind of contact or communication.

9) Question your tendency to pity too easily.

10) Do not try to redeem the unredeemable.

11) Never agree, out of pity or any other reason, to help a sociopath conceal his or her true character.

12) Defend your psyche.

13) Living well is the best revenge.

And, I absolutely agree that #13....living well is the best revenge IS THE BEST THING YOU CAN DO FOR YOURSELF AND YOUR FAMILY.

~ The Mediator